A Deep Ocean of Secrets
I was watching “Titanic” the other day when the old Rose said, “A woman’s heart is a deep ocean of secrets.” This is not just one of the random sayings, I feel. There is every truth in it! More often than not, however enduring a relationship is, misunderstanding opens a crack, narrow at first, but wider as the time goes by. And guess what the root of misunderstanding is? Obviously, SECRETS! It is a bare truth that faith is highly prized with utmost priority in any relationships. Faith starts to wear off when either one of the parties has so many things to hide, so many secrets, that it paves the way for skepticism to set in. You will be amazed at how destructive skepticism can be to your relationship. Thus start confiding in your partner as much as you can, especially girls! Make sure only a small room is left for secrets! For your information, ladies, guys really hate seeing their partners having a top secret conversation right before their eyes because it makes them feel “small” and unimportant!
Have faith!
Have faith!
Comments
well, i guess guys don't share much either!
To bro Rex: Speaking of own experience, huh???
i so far have noticed something significant by reading your blog and Pagn's. it seems like from Pagn's blog, she was trying to describe how bad guys are. you know like guys are selfish and all that.and from here it seems like you are trying to respond to what she has been complaining about guys by saying that the girls are the top secrets keepers. they never told their secrets. all in all, it seems like both of you really have negative opinion towards different sex. Hey Ven, anything you like about girls,dude???
If you read carefully, i didn't say 'not all guys' that means there are some guys who are good listeners!!! I never generalize!
To icebreaker: It's not always easy for girls to spit out everything she wants to say! I'm sure that goes for the guys too.
To PM: i agree with you. i have known a few guys who are really good at getting girls to talk to them about what bothers her!
To guys out there!
When she walks away from you, angry
[ Follow her ]
When she stares at your mouth
[ Kiss her ]
When she pushes you or hits you
[ Grab her and don’t let go ]
When she starts cussing at you
[ Kiss her and tell her you love her ]
When she’s quiet
[ Ask her what’s wrong ]
When she ignores you
[ Give her your attention ]
When she pulls away
[ Pull her back ]
When you see her at her worst
[ Tell her she’s beautiful ]
When you see her start crying
[Just hold her and don’t say a word ]
When you see her walking
[ Sneak up and hug her waist from behind ]
When she’s scared
[ Protect her ]
When she lays her head on your shoulder
[ Tilt her head up and kiss her ]
When she steals your favorite hat
[ Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night]
When she teases you
[ Tease her back and make her laugh ]
When she doesn’t answer for a long time
[ reassure her that everything is okay ]
When she looks at you with doubt
[ Back yourself up ]
When she says that she likes you
[ she really does more than you could understand ]
When she grabs at your hands
[ Hold hers and play with her fingers ]
When she bumps into you
[ bump into her back and make her laugh ]
When she tells you a secret
[ keep it safe and untold ]
When she looks at you in your eyes
[ dont look away until she does ]
When she misses you
[ she’s hurting inside ]
When you break her heart
[ the pain never really goes away ]
When she says its over
[ she still wants you to be hers ]
When she repost this bulletin
[ she wants you to read it ]
- Stay on the phone with her even if shes not saying anything.
- When she’s mad, hug her tight and don’t let go
- When she says she’s ok, dont believe it, talk with her
- because 10 yrs later she’ll remember you
- Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her
- Call her before you sleep and after you wake up
- Treat her like she’s all that matters to you.
- Tease her and let her tease you back.
- Stay up all night with her when she’s sick.
- Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think it’s stupid.
- Give her the world.
- Let her wear your clothes.
- When she’s bored and sad, hang out with her.
- Let her know she’s important.
- Kiss her in the pouring rain.
- When she runs up at you crying, the first thing you say is;
“Whose ass am I kicking babe?”
Thanks for agreeing with me. I do agree with your ideas, too.