HAPPY St. Valentine's Day!


Take a careful look around you!
There might be someone in the crowd there that wishes more than anything to be noticed by you, someone that you probably knows very well but has always been taken for granted, someone that has always been standing there in your doorway, someone that has always been ready to wipe your tears, and someone that has probably shed so many tears for you without your knowledge. Such a someone deserves attention too!

Happy St. Valentine's Day!

Make the best out of today!

Comments

Anonymous said…
Well, I wonder when will that person knows that somebody's me. lolz!
Barbie said…
Hope I'm not unintentionally hurting that someone you described, Vendy. It is indeed painful to be ignored and uncared for.
Anonymous said…
looking hard for the person now:)
Rithy said…
Hey Ven, is it a story too my friend?? that someone of course deserves some credit too i believe...at least for the tears...lets hope that someone's not you dude!!! but if its really you, you are not the only one in this world( i hope barbie would agree with me)and i guess this is the complete life everybody has to go through..isnt it??
Sopheary said…
Sigh! This is what i don't like about life. We make those who care for us cry and cry for those who never care. If I had a magic, I would eliminate this human characteristic so that life would be less complicated.
Pagna said…
Sigh too!
It sounds Ven's birthday is not that cheerful to him. If I were you man, I would go to that girl and ask for a chance. So that I do not have to cry alone...
Right everyone?
Sopheary said…
Yeah, right, Pagn. I agree with ya. Ven, believe me, it's not too late yet.
Anonymous said…
well, people do look at the wrong directions sometimes. After they realise it, they have already lost it to someone else. There is such thing as being too late.
Anonymous said…
Well, there is such thing as too early too. You need the right time to say the right words to the right person. There is a timing to this kind of thing!
Ok ok...so i'll have to spend some time here to reply to EACH of you.

To Vattey: First come first serve!...well, and when will you notice that there is someone standing behind you all along too? Maybe--just maybe--there are others who deserve the kind of attention you are paying to the "someone" too, you know (not me, folks, in case you interpret the message wrongly!)

To Barbie: it is very painful to care for someone and yet be not cared for in return. So take a careful look around you now, Barbie.

To Bro Rex: Glad that you are taking my advice seriously:-) It's worth observing people around you cos you never know that sometimes the most precious thing that you can possibly imagine of is standing right in front of you.

To Rithy: yeah...for the tears! And the pain that has been stabbing at the "someone's heart" all along. Well, you are definitely right. There are many "someones" out there. And if anything was to be done, that would be to prevent their tears from flowing.

To PM: It is the most stupid thing that has ever happened to each of us, i am sure, PM; yet, as contradictory as it may sound to you now, changing the way these things are to be is beyond our control. All we can do now is just to pray that the "someone" is not any of us and that we will never hurt anyone the way we are hurt.

To Pagna: I, of course, enjoyed myself on my very own birthday! Not as in spending time with my gf--since currently i don't have one yet--but as in seeing OTHERS enjoying themselves on my VERY brithday. And of course, thanks for your advice again! But chances are not always there for you, you know!

To PM: It is generally believed that it's never too late to do things, but i personally feel and am convinced that there is no turning back for certain things.

To Pheaktra: i absolutely agree with you, pheaktra! Sometimes when you know that it's too late, you can do nothing but let go, just wishing from all you heart that all the pain will just go too.

To Vattey: it goes without saying that this kind of thing needs the right timing. In fact, timing matters a lot. That's why there is this saying about time being the greatest healer.
Unknown said…
PM, if you could eliminate all this, it's no longer called a life u know.. human life is that complex and mixed up with many things. sorrow, sadness, happiness, love is all we have to go through no matter what. we can't argue for a better than this cuz it's all predestined. we can merely determine our future and hope, not our life. believe me, life has no meaning if no all combination of that. i'd still be happy tho i feel restless sometimes... believe it or not, when we're sad for one thing, there'll be another thing comes to our life to fill those missing parts. when u lost someone, u'll get another one ;) so have more faith in urself & hope in ur life :) life's not for only that, we have things awaiting us to do. i guess u should give it a try ven!

well, i'd prefer care & love from friends and people around me too. i believe that people need care in return and i'm trying all my best to care my friends back, those who cared me... i just don't want to leave them behind, so not to be left behind.. it seems i've been neglecting my friendship for so long and it's time i do something to amend it.. well, it may seem that i'm quite far from friends now, well, i'm just busy with myself... keeping in my room imagining things and wild things i should not... it's all in the past we should not get back to our past right? to say it, i kinda not know what's going on with people around me now..
Sopheary said…
Ven, can I raise a question to your 'someone' theory? I know it's painful to care about a person but never get the care in return. But do think that u should turn to care about the 'someone' even when u know that doing this will mislead that 'someone' into thinking that u are giving out the green light to him or her? And eventually the pain in 'someone' will be maximized when at the end s/he realizes that u don't have the same feeling. Well, in this case, I personally believe that we should be a bit selfish for the good result in the long-run for all of us. Honestly, that's what I've been doing so far--being mean yet caring.
Pagna said…
You guys are creating puzzle in my head now. It sounds even more complex to read what you guys are trying to mean. Aiyo...
Make it simple man! Care about the one you want to care and if you are selfish to think of the return-cared, then do not care about anyone.
Rithy said…
well....guys ive got somthin' to say here...first of all i was really impressed by the speech made by HOUR,...it sounds like he knows a lo about life now by saying that life is a combination of everything....and without one part of it, life would be meaningless...it looks like he is no longer a turtle yet rather a matured turtle..To, PM and PAGN, i suggest you go back to HOur's defintion of life, the combination of everything,...Ven, you can say its painfull to care for someone while not getting any care in return...i know this is not right...but after all, that someone cannot stop thinking about that someone else while complaining this is not fair, but this is life, isnt it?? that someone needs time to work it out what life means, and when s/he finally got it, that someone would realize that theres nothing wrong with anything...its just life!!!and that someone would learn to appreciate what they have learnt from the experience of pain..
Unknown said…
well, to begin with, thx u so much thy, my best friend.. U know its such a care from u that understand me so much.. Well, that's just what i can say, but haven't ever put into practice.. I mean i merely got the theory. I'm no longer turtle, but matured one? Isn't it still turtle, u said thy? My friend, come on, at least this turtle is matured in conception, not face and age ha ha.. Some really look so different from what they were the last 3 years ah ha.. They look even matured now, not to mention about their age.

Well, enough about nonsense, hei i agree with pagn. Sometimes it seems ur words are so profound that i understand nothing about it.. Well, be simpler yet meaningful.. Pls emphasize some me the points too. Maybe i'm not upgraded with the news or so that's why i seem to feel wonder sometimes. Hope i'm told too ha ha.. Thy, what u said were also nice, friend. It seems u don't just look old, ur ideas are also mature enough to be agreed by old people. Ven, whatever it is, pls always remember that u have us besides u. U care us and we care u. That's returned care heh heh
You guys are theoretically experts now! Anyway, of course, I am perfectly aware of the the bare truth that life is a well-mixed blend, without any element of which it wouldn't be a "life" anymore. Well, it is a theoretically sound argument, indeed! But, for heaven's sake, who in this world can possibly accept things as they come even if it means being hurt again and again? And you were saying about being mean yet caring? There is no such a thing! You have no idea how people even after being rejected still cling onto this very small hope, praying that someday things will be different for YEARS, mind you! Anyway, this "thing" can not be decided on only one part, so if any of you happens to be that "someone", that's probably what destiny does to you!
Unknown said…
heh heh they're so expert now in these concepts hha... seriously, my life is full of those complexion :D

hei ven, of course lah... hei, why not? stars can fall right so i suggest keeping on trying... there'll be one day that someone will be soft heartened by the touching words or moving actions :) when there's will there's way so keep it up guys! try for the trillion times if you really want it succeed.
So waiting for the stars to fall? Well i guess that's easy. I mean, a lot of stars have been falling lately. You can find those falling stars in PM's blog hehehe...anyway, i think let's give it a rest! Sometimes, you can't do nothing but wait...hehe...thank you, dude!
Anonymous said…
I agree with Vendy! But well, hopefully, the waiting wont be in vain!
Anonymous said…
I agree with Vendy! But hopefully, the waiting wont be in vain
Unknown said…
Are u gonna wait for ur whole life? Believe me, waiting sometimes is in vain.. I mean u got nothing for ur waiting.. I've been waiting for so long, don't know when i can achieve my purpose sometimes so waiting can bring u nothing sometimes. For me i'd choose to act out rather than jst wait, wait and waiting,
Pagna said…
Waiting for the right time to be seen?
I know it's a waste of time waiting, but then ppl dun usually resort to waiting as their means of, you know, getting what they long for. As in my case--in vattey's too, we really cannot do anything. Believe me!We really can't! I mean, why would you want to do sth that really hurts the other side since you are well aware that the other side is better off with someone else?

Waiting to be seen? Well we have been seen already, pagn, but not as someone important in the play, actually as a passer-by, to which audience gives very little attention.
Anonymous said…
Wow, Vendy! You seems to read my mind and seem to know what is really going on. Hahha. That's really my batchmate. Oh well, yeap, nothing we can do, but to wait!
Sopheary said…
Guess what? I like Hour's comment the most. I'm on your side, Hour. We should lead a more active life insteading of the passive one. Ven, I'm sure you've been tired of your long waiting all these years, and now you are saying you're gonna wait more. Oh, gosh! Come on! Dust it off!
To Vattey: hehehe...i can see through you, you know...hehehe...i am not claiming that i know how you feel exactly...i just roughly know that you are doing some sort of sacrificing.

To PM: well, pm, actually i wasn't sayng that i would want to wait more. i mean, i was trying to make things clear to HOur that victims like me could do nothing but wait. And yeah...i am not going to wait anymore! i know it's impossible and nothing is left except a faint smell of memories. So i am going to move on with my life!
Unknown said…
To Pagn: sometimes it's worth waiting for the right time.. who knows, we might be rejected, hahha... for gals, i'm more than sure that they'll be likely to reject us for the very first proposal, cuz maybe she was shy or she had alternative choices ahha...

To Ven: hmm, ven, it sounds to me that u and vattey sound so hopeless huh. but believe me, for whatever we do, we only want the other side to live in happiness.. if she's better off with someone else. whether who she chooses to be with, what we yearn for is whether she's happy with someone else :) but hei, how long r u gonna wait huh? i've been waiting u know for like ages, but still go on with waiting for hope to come :) maybe there's miracle!!!

To PM: thx so much for ur liking lah! actually i jst say it out from the inner most of mah heart ;P hei, pm, sometimes we should wait, cuz there's nothing else we could do besides that u know.. it's rather unfair for one side love the most! quite sad! so how are you going on with ur life, ven? ahha so mean u give up already.
Well...we are...or maybe she is and i WAS. Like what i ahve said, i am moving on now. And of course, i tottaly agree with you, man, about your belief that we should give up for the sake of our loved one. When they are happy, we are also happy. So you have been waiting too? Poor us, man! You know what? The more i think of it, the more it becomes apparent that guys are being love vitims now. I mean, there are so many heart-broken men in here and out there.
Pagna said…
look ven, it sound sad in here!
Wait and Wait but have u ever asked ur loved one what is in her mind?
Approach her and at least u tell her s.th so u won't regret of having said nothing one day!
Nah...i am not going to say it, not when she is already having so much fun! i mean, can you imagine if suddenly i approach her and tell her exactly how i feel, in the middle of her having so great a time with her loved one. Then she may feel really sympathetic or whatever, which i dun want from her. BY the way, in case you dun know, i told her abt how i felt already...so yeah...anyway, thanks for your concern, Pagn...you have been really helpful and supportive:-)
Unknown said…
To Ven: Well.. Come on! Put our past behind us, will you? I'm good at theory sometimes but never put that into practice. I've been telling myself to put all that in behind me, but guess what? I've always failed to do that. That's why i'm hereby to encourage you not to do as me.. Just go ahead with your bright future man. There's more thing awaiting u, don't just cling on this lah! and believe me, people experienced heart broken. i mean not all candidates pass this scary step. wha haha....

TO Pagn: Well, sometimes it's over already and guess what? Are you so sure that after saying all that, he'll still stand a chance? I think let it be. what's over is over. Sometimes words are better left unsaid. If she meant to get back, she would have done it long ago, not to wait until now, believe me! saying all this will just make both of parties feel sad, so let the fate and time decides! we can't do anything much.
TO HOUR: Dude, i agree with ya...sometimes things should be left unsaid cos we all are fully aware that it will does more harm than good if we say them out...Sigh...you know what? i have been trying to convince myself that i has already gotten over her but sometimes her image just keeps haunting me...But, yeah, i am determined to move on with my life. THanks, dude, for your concern!
Pagna said…
wait Ven, can i gues who she is? It sounds to me that you are talking about my friend...u know who m talking about man!

lol lol...!
Oh my God! i can;t believe you are such a sadist! You are laughing when my entire is crumbling down? I thought you knew who i was refering to?
Sopheary said…
To Pagn:
Hey, everyone on earth knows who Ven is talking about. Gosh! It surprises me when u asked this question, Pagn.
Unknown said…
To Ven: hahha it's so nice to hear that there's someone agrees with mah idea hahah.. almost all the time, mah ideas are always contradicted to those pp... this time feel so happy! dude, that's normal that we could still see her image in our head hah.. but couldn't help. jst feel sad a moment then u'll be alright, believe me!

To Pagn: Who the hell that girl is, Pagn? Why jst say it so short huh! come on, speak! but pagn and ven, i have no idea of who is the girl lah! Come on, tell me!! :( i feel that i'm not a good friend at all. never know what's going on with mah friends. only care about myself :(
To HOUR: You really have no idea HOUR? Ok...i am not going to say it here--i think it's too public. And i really realy think we should drop the topic before my privacy turns to public spectecular...i'll tell ya, dude! Come on, man, even PM knows it!!!
Sopheary said…
To Ven:
Haha...seems like this time I'm the only one understanding you, Ven. Hey, Ven, what if she happens to read this post?

To Hour:
Hey, are you serious that you don't know who she is? Come on! Ven's been talking about her so many times that the topic has become a cliche now.
Unknown said…
To Ven & PM: if talking abt that one u mentioned last time PM, i knew that it's her... but i was told by thy that there's another girl.. Oops, wait, i'm confused now... well, well, will approach rosy abt all this... cuz he's the one who made me vexed this time... ven, i dun mean to publicize ur privacy dude, heh heh, can jst approach me any days and tell me then! :) if she happens to read, she should know how ven feels :( i feel pity u lah, ven!!
To HOur and PM: if she happens to read? Well, i guess nothing will happen...really! anyway, HOur, wait a minute! Did you just say THY told ya? Gosh...maybe everyone out there knows it...i'll summon THY here...
THY: hey, dude, hour said sth about you...so we need your clarification!
Unknown said…
Oops, full of business huh in ur head! come on, dun be like this, we're friends, aren't we? i'm sure u don't wanna be loanshark either! so the best way is to give me the MONEY for free.... lolz

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